Hey beauty,
I felt the heat rise in my chest as my partner spoke about me as if I were a character in a book they had already finished reading. This is who you are. This is what you meant. This is what you always do.
Wait… what?
It’s a jarring feeling when someone you love stops seeing you and instead starts defining you. When curiosity is replaced with certainty. When your experience is reduced to a storyline written in their mind.
And I get it. It’s human nature. We categorize, we label, we assume. It makes life easier—until it doesn’t. Until those assumptions turn into walls between us. Until we stop allowing each other to evolve, to surprise, to be more than a collection of past moments.
I don’t want to be placed in a box. I want to be witnessed. I want to be in a relationship where we don’t play the guessing game, where we don’t make each other the enemy. Instead, we listen—really listen—to what’s alive in the moment.
Imagine a world where we all became fluent in our own internal experience instead of becoming experts at defining others.
A world where, instead of jumping to conclusions, we lean in.
Where we stay open. Curious. Willing to meet each other fresh—again and again.
That’s the world I want to live in.
That’s the relationship I want to build.
Are you with me?
What quality and standard of relationship are you consciously choosing with yourself and others?
We can refine that together. Hit reply and share—what’s your biggest relationship struggle right now? I’d love to connect.
Or, if you’re ready to go deeper, let’s book a discovery session and explore this together.
Huge love,
P.S: The way we relate matters. It shapes everything. Let’s create more awareness of what is most meaningful to you together - Book here.
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