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Not every storm needs a villain. Not every wound needs a name. But we’re taught to split the world in two—good and bad, right and wrong, me and you. Like salt blaming pepper for being too bold, too different, too much.

There’s a little café I used to go to — not for the coffee, though i am sure it was good — but for the moment. The moment where the barista would meet my eye, remember my name and how I liked my matcha - she’d ask how I was really doing. The cup was warm in my hands, the flavour spot on, but it was that feeling — being seen, heard, and known — that really kept me coming back.

They told you long-term love gets boring.  So you believed them. There’s this narrative that floats around in our culture—one that many of us absorb without even realizing:“Over time, your long-term relationship (or marriage) will inevitably become boring, stale, lifeless.”