They told you long-term love gets boring!

Beautiful one,

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They told you long-term love gets boring. 

So you believed them.

There’s this narrative that floats around in our culture—one that many of us absorb without even realizing:

“Over time, your long-term relationship (or marriage) will inevitably become boring, stale, lifeless.”

And so, a fear quietly settles in.

A prediction gets made before the story has even unfolded.

Not because it’s true… but because it’s been modeled to you.

Because we’ve seen relationships fall flat.

Because we’ve absorbed the cultural myths and expectations about what “happens” over time.

But here’s the thing:

Stagnation and boredom aren’t exclusive to marriage or monogamy.

They’re part of life.

You can be single and bored.

You can be wildly in love and still feel stagnant in other areas.

What matters most isn’t the boredom itself—It’s what you make it mean.

It’s your relationship with boredom, with stillness, with the parts that feel slow or quiet or dull.

What if boredom wasn’t a red flag—but a signpost?

A nudge from life saying:

“Hey, something needs to shift. Let’s stir the pot. Let’s bring something new in.

”What if we stopped being afraid of these natural dips and started seeing them as doorways?

Moments that ask us to wake up, to re-engage, to bring in movement, joy, play, curiosity.

Let’s stop buying into the story that long-term love loses its spark.

Let’s start writing new ones—Where boredom becomes a bridge.

Where stagnation becomes an invitation.

Where love is allowed to evolve, again and again.

And this doesn’t just apply to romantic partnerships.

This is true for anything you’ve been in relationship with for a long time—A friendship.

A career path.

Your creative work.

Even the version of yourself you’ve been carrying for years.

Staleness isn’t a sign to quit.

It’s a signal to listen more closely.

To re-engage. To reimagine.

To invite in a fresh perspective and move toward what lights you up—again.

What’s boring you and feels super stagnant right now? Comment below and share!

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PS: If you're looking to move out of the stagnancy, boredom & old patterns & back into a deeper connection in your relationship, Attuned (my relationship coaching package) could be exactly what you need.