What if nothing is wrong… and you’re just in the middle?

Hi lovely,

I’m writing this at the end of a very full day.

One of those days where I’ve been everything to everyone. Teacher. Taxi driver. Snack maker. Mediator. Vision-holder of a future that hasn’t quite arrived yet.

And somewhere in the quiet tonight, I caught myself feeling that familiar tension…

That sense of being in the middle.

Not where I was.

Not yet where I know I’m going.

Committed to change.

Able to see it.

But not living inside it fully yet.

And if I’m honest, that space can feel overwhelming.

It can feel stagnant.

It can feel like I should be further along.

It can feel like I need answers…or momentum…or validation that it’s all working.

Maybe you know that feeling too.

The yearning to earn more.

To create more.

To love and be loved more deeply.

To expand your capacity.

To finally see the evidence of the shift you’ve been working toward.

And yet life is still asking you to pack lunches.

Answer emails.

Show up for activity drop-offs.

Be present.

Be patient.

I read recently that 75% of the time we’ll ever spend with our children is complete by the time they’re twelve.

That landed in my body.

Because even in the moments where I wonder, “Will this season ever change?” - I know it will.

Everything does.

The ebbs.

The flows.

The tight seasons.

The expansive ones.

So instead of asking, “Why isn’t this happening faster?”

I’ve started asking…

How do I want to be in relationship with this ebb?

What story am I creating about myself while I’m here?

That I’m behind?

That I’m failing?

That I should have figured it out by now?

Or that I am still in motion.

Still becoming.

Still closer than I was yesterday.

I’m learning that the nervous system loves to scan for lack.

For what’s missing.

For proof that we’re off track.

But what if the in-between isn’t proof of failure?

What if it’s proof that you’re building something that actually matters?

There is life in the yearning.

There is progress in the process.

There is growth even when it looks ordinary from the outside.

And what changes everything - for me, and for the women I sit with - is expression.

Saying the quiet thing out loud.

Letting the overwhelm have air.

Untangling the stories instead of carrying them alone.

You don’t need to rush this season.

You need to feel supported inside it.

You need space to exhale.

To remember who you are.

To steady your nervous system so it stops interpreting “not yet” as “never.”

And if you’re in that in-between right now,I see you.

Truly.

You are not behind.

You are in transition.

And even here, there is momentum.

Huge love,

P.S.  If this feels like it was written directly to you, reach out. I’m here to help you unburden, to feel more tethered and less alone in your progress. You don’t have to carry the middle by yourself. It’s what I do.

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